Aside from the Great Wall , there’s a few walls you gotta either get used to or figure out ways to conquer.
Actually I think, it’s more about appreciating a new “normal” .. You’ve probably heard about them all , but I’ll write about my experience!
Personal space and queues
What is personal space? Whatever you think it should be – divide by 8. That’s how it is here. Living in London prepared me for busy undergrounds and queues (I mean.. Maybe I haven’t fully seen the worst of it yet? I thankfully commute to work outside peak hour times!! #blessed ). People love to lean in and take secret selfies with me… I always try dress to impress now, just in case I get featured in someone’s family photo… Again! My friend who’s been living here a while (tall, tattooed, fair skinned male) gets this attention too and has predicted I won’t enjoy this attention for too long. I’m out to prove him wrong though! (Wish me luck!) if you’re having a bad day people getting up in your grill isn’t the best but hey… Imagine a life where people don’t appreciate your looks ! 😂😂😂… Also, a lady met me in tube and followed me for a while to tell me she wanted to paint my portrait (not naked…) so stay tuned for that! (What even is my life?)
Language barriers
Well, that might seem obvious. I’m thankful for the local teachers that are helping me navigate my way around. They are my translators! When I get messages or documents in Chinese I feel so unintelligent . Like looking at all these little markings … I now know what it’s like to be a child again, seeing characters and knowing “this means something, I know it does” . It’s like reading The DaVinci code … When I do recognise characters or understand / guess what people are talking about, I feel so proud! I thank my body language reading skills (not tone reading … You can never really tell if Chinese people are fully angry!). I would like to thank Google translate and the camera feature that means you take a photo and it translates words from mandarin!
I can tell you one thing- smiles still go a long way here! I mean they are already staring , so smile !
Food
So , this part of the blog is to address out all Chinese restaurants in Australia and England (and perhaps beyond)… Can you get some more variety and real Chinese food? Honey chicken doesn’t even exist here (it might come from another chinese province … But shhh)
Food is great, I love it. My body doesn’t , since I’m gluten and wheat and dairy intolerant. I know I’ll get into a groove and figure it out soon, but they put secret things in recipes here (MSG) and like chicken feet (surprise!) so it’s going to be a long process. Thank God for green tea (Lü Cha! (I think that’s how you spell it)) and the kitchen I share with a pooping Poodle & it’s Chinese family , so thankfully I can sometimes make my own meals – especially smoothies!!! Stay tuned for some blogs on food …obviously. To be honest , most of the places I’ve been I can’t even read or pronounce the names, so, I can’t even recommend that many restaurants ! 😂
Toilet paper
If you haven’t laughed at my blog yet, don’t worry you will soon. I’ll have posts dedicated to toilet trips. But, if you’re coming to visit , pack some tissue ! Don’t forget to wipe ( unlike some of my students!) and then don’t flush the paper down the toilet .. A big no-no! You gotta bin it! So you get a real experience of how everyone else’s bowel movements have been.
Internet
Ha! Well I know I’ve been on Facebook and Instagram more than I thought I would or could. I have to use a VPN (proxy) for sites like these and Google, FaceTime , google translate and maps because they are blocked by government. Even with my VPN app they take forever to load!(ssshhh) So WeChat is the Chinese equivalent … It runs China. You even pay for bills from this app! If you’ve downloaded it outside of China, it might not notify you (for some reason ) but it’s the best way to contact your Chinese pals! We don’t even really make phone calls or text it’s all about WeChat ! ( I say “we” as if I’m a local … ! )
The lack of Google / slow Google is a bit of a bummer because when you’re like “what’s the meaning of this…” “What’s that actress’ name” “what’s that song” it’s no longer a “google it” solution! Well, I mean you can – it’s just slow on the VPN, otherwise you gotta use a Chinese version 😂😂 good luck! I mean, I’ve actually decided that FB is good to tell you guys what I’ve been up to, and Instagram is a great way to publish photos and reflect on them later, but we can live with out them all… Google on the other hand … I’ll have to actually use my brain. And I can’t even use a library as its all in Chinese …
Water
You start to realise how much water you consume when you have to buy the bottled stuff. You can’t drink from the taps here (some brave soldiers boil and then drink … Which I have done and I probably have diseases now) so you gotta buy it all!
Also, if you’re sick, got a broken leg, headache, tired or blind, the solution is: DRINK HOT WATER. Currently got the flu and the lovely Aiyi cleaning lady at my centre keeps yelling at me in Chinese. I found out she’s been telling me to drink hot water. The slogan at work is “drink hot water or die”. It’s actually really soothing and helpful … Who knows maybe traditional Chinese medicine knows a little thing or two. (Let me know if you try it!)
SMOG
It hasn’t been that bad here .. But even in the summery blue skies here , there is a bit of heaviness in the air. I’ve been warned that “winter is coming” and the smog will only get worse! So I’d better stock up on those surgical looking masks
Traffic
Humans, animals, cars, busses, bikes, Tuk Tuks … There is always some form of transport or obstacle in your way! There is some road rules , but if you honk your horn you can get away with most things. Red lights don’t really mean THAT much. Pedestrian crossing are a nice suggestion. Also, when i saw a car on the path way, honking to move people out of the way, I thought to myself “I’ve really seen it all now!” .
Pea ice creams!
So far China has taught me to appreciate the little things and things that usually come easy! It’s not necessarily good or better or right or wrong …it’s different. Next time you drink from the tap or flush loo paper .. Think of me he he he xx 🚽